Excellent conference call last night - the speaker was also my coach... the topic? Emotional eating.
I learned a new tool to use when something happens that makes me feel overwhelmed and if I catch myself getting ready to binge:
Circumstance -> Thought -> Feeling -> Action -> Result
Press pause.
So the questions to ask:
1) What is the current circumstance?
2) What am I thinking?
3) How am I feeling?
4) What action am I about to take?
5) What will the result of that action be?
And then, once identified, re frame the questions...
1) What is the current circumstance?
2) How can I re frame the thinking
3) What COULD I feel?
4) What action am I COULD I take?
5) What will the result of that OTHER action be?
The bottom line is to really try to be aware of what choice I am making and what the potential outcomes of those choices are and then to look for OTHER ways to manage.
The bottom line is to really try to be aware of what choice I am making and what the potential outcomes of those choices are and then to look for OTHER ways to manage.
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